For instance, we walked out of the building the other day right when one of our neighbors was coming out with her dog. We had talked to her a few times when we'd first moved in but lately things were a little cool (or busy) every time we'd seen her in the past months. But this day, we walked in the same direction - to the park around the corner on our way to go to a little market. While talking with her another neighbor, who had been even cooler to us, came up. Apparently they walk their dogs together each day and sometimes sit on a park bench to talk. We "happened" to be there at that same time and stood and talked for a bit and asked their opinions on a butcher shop and how to ask for certain cuts of meat. Don told them something that really made them laugh and there just seemed to be a new friendliness from both of them.
We never see people we know at Chili's unless we have planned to meet them there but last night at Chili's one of the football players, a very new Christian, saw us and came over to our table. He stood and talked to us for a long time and then we stopped by his table to meet his family before we left. When we stepped around to their table, there were four children, 3 girls and 1 boy, and it was like looking at our family about 20 years ago. We have something in common now to talk about and build a bridge to his wife, and that wouldn't have likely happened in any other way, than by "chance" at Chili's.
I am meeting with a lady in our building, once a week for several hours, at a nearby cafe for language practice. Her understanding of English is better than her speaking so there is good give and take when we talk. We are becoming friends and she had said that she and her husband would have to take us for sardines sometime in June during the sardine festivals. (Don is not sure how much he is going to like this.) We'd not really met her husband and she said he would not talk as he will not speak English - even though he can understand some. A short time after the sardine conversation, we walked out of the building one evening at an "unusual" time for us and they were coming back in and we got to meet him and even joke a little about our language skills. A few days later their car battery died and since we park across from them in the garage, we were able to spend even a few more minutes with him, and work through some conversation and hand signals to figure things out - vocabulary isn't enough sometimes. But, the ice is broken and we know that getting to know him, even with the language barrier, is an open door.
These moments and many more like them remind us that God is working around us and that we just need to be asking, seeking, and knocking, as we go along each day. He is the One who reveals those moments and we don't have to strive to find them.
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